Parenting a College Student Abroad: Tips for Staying Connected During the University Years

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As a mom who has worn the hat of an expat teacher in China and Korea and now finds herself navigating the uncharted waters of parenting a college student in France, the journey of staying connected has taken on a whole new dimension. If you're in a similar boat or preparing to set sail, here are some insights and tips on maintaining that vital lifeline with your young adult. 

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Establish a Regular Communication Schedule Time zones can be tricky, but establishing a regular communication schedule helps bridge the gap. Whether it's a weekly video call, a daily text check-in, or a meme sent via Instagram, having a routine gives you and your college student a sense of consistency amid the whirlwind of new experiences.

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Explore Their New World Virtually
​Thanks to the wonders of the internet, you can virtually explore your child's new surroundings. Take virtual tours of the art school, learn about local landmarks, and stay informed about the cultural events happening in their city. This keeps you connected, and fosters shared experiences despite the physical distance.

Respect Their Independence
Staying connected doesn't mean hovering. Give your college student the space to explore, make mistakes, and find their own path. Trust that the values and lessons instilled during their high school years will guide them and allow them to forge their own unique journey.

Celebrate Milestones, Big and Small
From acing a tough exam to discovering a charming café in Montmartre, celebrate the milestones, big and small. Sending a surprise delivery, whether a bouquet of flowers or an uplifting message, lets your child know you're there in spirit, cheering them on every step.

Encourage Independence Through Shared Hobbies
​Maintain common interests by exploring hobbies together, even from a distance. If you share a love for art, consider starting a virtual art club or book club. If movies connect your family, fangirl together the newest releases. This not only provides a shared space for connection but also fosters their independence as they navigate their third year of university.

Plan Visits and Embrace Cultural Exchange
If circumstances allow, plan visits to your child's new home. Embrace the opportunity to experience their world firsthand and participate in their daily life. This not only strengthens your bond but also allows for a unique cultural exchange that enriches both your lives.

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As I navigate this exciting chapter of parenting during the university years, I'm learning that staying connected is about finding a balance between staying informed and allowing room for growth. It's a delicate dance of maintaining ties while nurturing independence. So, here's to embracing the adventure, cherishing the moments, and staying connected across continents

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